The Greatest Love of All
Today, I realized that in order to have a happy and fulfilling life-I had to learn how to rely on myself and not to depend on other people-especially now that I am a professional and I have to act like one. In fact, I could still remember that time when I cut off my ties with a friend of mine since her neediness was already suffocating me; Recently, I realized that I became like her-needy and pushy. Because of this realization, I also learned that this self-hate was the root of all my problems. When I was lonely, I fidgeted and wondered why they left me alone instead of appreciating the fact that I was with myself. The same could also be said for me and my crushes, instead of looking for a relationship to complement oneself, it even came to the point where conflicts happened just because I was looking for companionship with others instead of improving thyself. To be honest, I learned that I had to love myself when I felt lonely-I realized that even if I had a significant other, I w...